I have been SO busy lately! Every week I'm printing out my schedule from my Google Calendar and then checking it every day to make sure I don't forget something. Add to that my everyday tasks (empty dishwasher, do laundry, go to grocery store, etc.) and it feels like a lot. By evening I am ready to fall onto the couch where Rocco is patiently waiting for me.
I think it's going to be at this pace now until we leave for Thanksgiving week to California. We're continuing our tradition of renting a vacation house at some location in Cali where the guys will come to meet us for the long Thanksgiving weekend. In 2007 we stayed in a beach town just south of Santa Cruz called Aptos. That was a great little beach house. Last year we rented a house in Santa Barbara which was fun too. This year we plan to head further south to Newport Beach area. We found a cool beach house to rent with a rooftop deck (!) and I'm looking forward to exploring that area. It's always fun to see the guys and to just have a few days of "just us four" again. It only happens once a year which is not enough, but part of reality now. I treasure the time.
But I'm also REALLY looking forward to having some vacation time. I feel like this year both Kev and I have been working hard and not taking as many breaks. He added the band (which he loves) to his already full schedule, and I've been working with students and taking graduate classes through UCLA (one more to go to complete my program!) For the last two weeks both of us have had evening meetings Monday through Thursday.....we're missing our dinners for two at home, and Rocco is missing couch time with us. I'm feeling like we need to take a break.
This summer we only went out of town twice and one was camping on the Smith River (doesn't count!) and the other was a crazy-long drive to California over a long weekend. No weeks of relaxation. Then fall came and we're into the cold long winters. I realized that I may be in for a bad winter if I don't get some serious vacation time out of state!
We were lucky that the board my husband serves on met in sunny Phoenix for their fall meeting. We got to stay at a gorgeous resort (Sheraton Wild Horse Pass) for four days in glorious warm weather. Friends were there and we shared some good times. I got to sit by this beautiful pool for three whole days and just read and chat! One of my favorite things to do.
This was the best kind of place to be - this is my kind of "office". I took along my laptop and some reading to do (the work kind) but I just couldn't make myself do it when I got to look at this kind of view from my lounge chair. So......I simply didn't. I simply let myself veg out and enjoy. Well, we did get up to do a bit of shopping and go to lunch too. Tough duty.
My plan now is to buckle down and work hard until we leave for Thanksgiving in California. Seniors are working hard on applications and essays, and I have some new students to start the process with. I also have to do some research and write a proposal for a practicum. But I just keep thinking about that sun on the California beach. It's the carrot to dangle before myself to keep me going.
